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    I have some questions. If you get this upset over the little things, what will your reaction be when it is something serious? And something serious happens in every relationship. Jealousy is one of the the, if not the most dangerous feeling in a relationship. My question is this, if you are this jealous, how much do you really trust him? Also, if you really think that he would be interested in a 16 year old (16 will get you 20) is he really the person you thought he was? I have been married for 23 years and with my husband for 28. We have had some knock down, drag out fights but I have never, in the 28 years that I have known him been jealous. I have been there when women came on to him, I have been there when men came onto him but I always knew how he felt about me and I trusted his feelings and his judgement. I don't know alot about your fiancee but you have said things before that makes me think he is trustworthy. Why would you question it now?
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    I did not know this! That's awesome to know, actually.
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    No idea what to do but at least my college is free lol
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    I just turned 33 and still have no fucking idea what I am to be doing with my life. I always land stable jobs that I stay at for a good amount of time before leaving because I end up getting bored and/or hating it. I kind of know what I would be doing in my dream world, but that's not something that I necessarily view as realistic. All I know is that I eventually want to be doing something where I am working alongside my husband. That's all I really want, so that's what I am trying to make happen. So I guess my advice would be that it doesn't really matter what anybody else thinks or whether or not you know what you want to be doing in the future. As long as you are happy in the here and now, that is what matters.
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    God this reads like it was posted yesterday
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    It's so amazing that you decided to make this book... Twice! Thank you for making the book, and thank you for sharing the process.
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    This is so cool! I love that you are passionate about them and you took the time to do this!
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    Well deserved and great news, @kaylubd!!!
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    Thank you! I'm very happy to be a part of the team! I've been following the site for years, so I'm excited to actually write for the site
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    YAY @kaylubd. Nice to have another Chicagoan on the team! Congrats!!
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    I agree with the people above, it seems harmless, he's just being kind to her and since he switched jobs, he probably won't see her much anyway. I know how you feel though, I have jealousy problems too. 😬
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    Thank you, I really appreciate this.
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    I remember you! Welcome back and congrats on the birth of your daughter. Thanks for updating us with such a wonderful story! Good luck in your future hockey playing too
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    I think even if she perhaps likes him personally, and is helpless about it to the point she's come to write this card and often wants to talk with him etc, it doesn't mean at all your fiancee will feel anything in the same vein in return, it just seems to be cordiality on his part, and he probably just lets her express her attachment by kindness, because it had stayed in a professional context. If she has shown to be a little be embarrassed in your presence, I think it's good in the way that she has enough self-conscious about it and probably doesn't want her feelings to interfere with your couple. Maybe, if you feel to do so, could you even try to ask her, softly, about it, and tell her how you feel (without intending to dict her how she should behave). You never know, you might just both come out of it more relaxed not to keep it a non-verbal defiance thing between you two ? Moreover, I think it's normal you don't like when another girl approaches your fiancee like that, and it's good to have opened about it to him, but with his reply, there's nothing you should worry about, he continues to talk with her precisely because there's no feelings involved on his part and therefore to him it doesn't have anything to do with your couple. If he's trustworthy, you may continue to dislike this girl or other people that will approach him in the future, and it's your right, but he has the right to have exchanges with people, and even to have female friends and laugh with them for instance, and it doesn't mean your relationship is in questioning. I have been in the other position when my ex had a hard time accepting that I would show to like, even if it was only physical and superficial, another guy from time to time, while it was perfectly harmless that I would regarding our relationship. His reaction wasn't harmless for it, though! You still need to be free inside your couple.
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    I'm proud of you Elena! one of my favorite gdc'ers of all time and lucky enough to never lose contact with. You dealt with a lot and you deserve all this and much much more
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    Honestly I don't think I'm the right person to give you an advise, but I just wanted to let you know that I get where you're coming from, and I understand exactly how you feel. I might be as crazy as you or crazier when it comes to feeling this way She might be a bit infatuated with him, but it's probably harmless. It seems like he has been very friendly with his employees and does not make them feel like he's their boss but their colleague, which explains why she wrote the things she did and why the note does not seem to be something you write for your boss. How about the cards from other people? Did someone mention the same points that she did? Also I don't think he's standing up for her, he is just trying to comfort you that there's nothing to worry about. In any case if he left this job hopefully he will never have to deal with her again, and you won't have to worry about it anymore.
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    We humans have evolved for hundreds of millions of years, and underneath our big, smart human brains we still have a reptilian brain. If someone insults you or bumps into you without apologizing, the reptilian brain says "let's kill this motherfucker!" When you got more food in front of you than you need, the reptilian brain says "Eat it all!". And when you see an attractive person, the repitilian brain says "It's fuck time!" But you are no more likely to cheat on your boyfriend with the person on the bus that you think is hot then you are to murder the person on the bus who has infringed on your personal space, because you have a primate brain that lets you control yourself and make decisions. We all have a reptilian brain. Freud called it the "id." The id is pure indulgence without a shred of conscience, it doesn't second guess itself or feel bad because the id concerns itself with your survival. Eat, mate, and kill your enemies. That's its job. But you also have a superego, the part of your brain that suppresses impulsive desires, and the ego which balances your id and superego. Don't concern yourself with fleeting thoughts and desires, we all have them. Some people with OCD even suffer intrusive thoughts about things like killing their families, but they would never actually do it, they're no more dangerous than anyone else cause these are just thoughts. You can't control what you think of, you can control what you do though, and it sounds like you're having no problem with that part, so you're good. It's totally normal.
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    Yeah that "hoe" needs to be replaced lmao.
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    It is hard to make such a big decision, but it is also supposed to be hard. I think a career within nursing might be a little more "safe" than a career within piercing, but both nursing and medical studies requires determination, because it can be really exhausting at times. I am a nurse myself, and it is an education that gives you many posibilities, but you also have to consider whether you are willing to work evenings/nights and holidays and if you like a lot of responsibility. Write down pros and cons, don't be hard on yourself and give yourself time! Best wishes.
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    A lot of these tips are really helpful, good work. I would however advise against eating right before bed, depending on what your sleep habits are. When you're eating right before bed, your body's digestive cycle is continuing like if you're still awake even while you're sleeping, because you had the late meal. There's better ways to explain it but essentially your body will start to play this out of sync game of I'm still processing food when your brain is trying to sleep, and your brain is trying to wake up when your body thinks it's supposed to be in the resting portion. There's some hopefully easy to find articles about this, it's essentially just a loose form of 'time restricted' eating. I've noticed it helps when I dont eat past 7or8 for example. Even if im sleeping while hungry....I wake up actually awake and not so groggy.
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    Well at least I'm not throwing money out of the window but it's the same kind of existential hell though.
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    Thank you so much! I'll start these up again when I have more time to do them, which will probably be in early-mid December.
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    I agree to a point. I love that people are talking about how important self-care is especially mental health self care. The positive effects to this movement and talk opens up a dialogue that needs to be heard and had. Anything- any topic can and will be taken too far. I mean it is social media so people are going to take the self-care to narcissistic level because these are where narcissistic people thrive and have an audience. Like the zero fucks given idea can literally be taken to the extreme and make a person think it's okay to be a sociopath-when the original idea was to not care what others think of reaching your hopes and dreams and don't let society put you in a box etc.
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    this!! i totally agree with you. say it louder for the people in the back :))
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    Aww she is amazing. Wholesome post
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    Dude, this is so rad! Keep this up, this is awesome!
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    a vodka shot I repeat A VODKA SHOT (at least it's not beer)
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    Nice one. I especially love the chorus. I could totally imagine it with music as I read it
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    Says the person who likes Nightlife
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    eported for name calling reported for a beaten like a dead horse ceadagh joke Totally won, way to go Marl
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    CANADIANS oh oh sorry hold on CANADIANS
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    Cameron, you're a fucking idiot.
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    A whole paragraph to just say those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, fuck sake
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    but that fat piece of shit is such an easy target
  46. 1 point
    This blog is going to be so good once the chat freaks get their hands on it
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    YEAH!!!!! Bunch of fuck nuts not listening to the mods. Keep this shit civil you ass crack whore bitches. Fucking mods not enforcing shit these days good for nothing cunts


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